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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Fri, 12 Mar 2010 15:54:11 GMT--><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" href="/universal/styles/feed.css"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Fable - Comments</title><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/</link><description></description><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>April comments on</title><author>April</author><pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 02:36:21 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/different-moods-different-styles-of-thinking.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7706481</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree that the mind has different styles of thinking.I for one thing get the best of my ideas when I'm pressured. I guess I work best under pressure! I just ran across your blog today and I think that you have a very interesting post!</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Cole Bitting comments on "Depression" - The Fight</title><author>Cole Bitting</author><pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:27:03 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/depression-the-fight.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7631341</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>As a mental illness, depression probably affects the greatest number of people. It is also one of the harder qualities of our complex human nature to justify or explain. Because so many suffer, it feels just wrong.</p><p>Depression is a focus in the following fields of study: psychopharmacology, psychiatry, neuroscience, psychology, sociology, anthropology and economics. The common term &quot;depression,&quot; have varied means across all these fields. Many people are very reactive when they read that their field A, is being diminished or dismissed because of a published article from filed B. This issue is true within disciplines and across disciplines. We're all jumpy when the New York Times appears to take sides.</p><p>Finally, depression cause tremendous suffering and it presences engages moral reasoning. Also, depression is a condition with costs and benefits. Some people conflate the indications that a) depression has benefits, with b) moral requirement to treat the suffering. We treat because it's morally responsible. We study because it's intellectually fascinating. We shouldn't deny B because of A.</p><p>This debate has worked it's way down to moral tail-chasing.</p><p>I take you comment to mean we can either be caught up in the experience of depression, or we can watch the experience of depression. The second point of view is hard particularly during depression, but it provides for the best regulation, including the decision to go see medical attention.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Steven | The Emotion Machine comments on "Depression" - The Fight</title><author>Steven | The Emotion Machine</author><pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:40:01 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/depression-the-fight.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7629303</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>On top of all that I just want to add that our minds can be our greatest allies and also our greatest foes. It is all about how we use them.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Steven | The Emotion Machine comments on "Depression" - The Fight</title><author>Steven | The Emotion Machine</author><pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:36:31 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/depression-the-fight.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7629269</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Interesting article, I read Ronald Pies' too, but what exactly do we mean by seeing the &quot;upside to depression?&quot; </p><p>The &quot;fire safety&quot; analogy I believe is hogwash. &quot;Oh the whole house burnt down but at least we have these muffins!&quot; That to me is not a good strategy if by focusing on the muffins you mean ignoring the truth of everything else. </p><p>Does it mean seeing depression as a learning experience? Perhaps, and why attack such a view? What detriment does it have? What is wrong with learning from our experiences? A stupid criticism in my honest opinion, and very frustrating to read.</p><p>What exactly do these people propose as an answer? Do they not think most psychotherapy uses similar techniques?</p><p>The whole &quot;rumination hypothesis&quot; debunk is also very premature. </p><p>Okay, so they look into some brains and see &quot;increased activity&quot; in the frontal cortex and then look into other brains and see &quot;decreased activity&quot; in the frontal cortex. What does this at all tell us about seeing the upside to depression? Absolutely nothing, especially since we have no idea about the CONTENT of these thoughts. </p><p>People can dig themselves into a hole with their minds and they can also build a ladder out. Without discussing WHAT and HOW people actually think about their depression then we have nothing to really say about these mental strategies, since WE DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE.</p><p>I'm not saying depression is the cure to depression; it is just a tool, and we need to learn how to use it properly.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Cole Bitting comments on Growth Needs Sadness</title><author>Cole Bitting</author><pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 17:53:01 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/growth-needs-sadness.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7514680</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for comment. PTSD is a ravaging condition, one I hope you work through with great success. Your focus on maintaining your ability to cope and function is very appropriate - Ambian can be a great tool. Continue to reach out to others especially if you cannot connect to Facebook. Anonymously posting pieces of your experience can help in the healing. If you do, try to write about both the emotions and the facts of the experience. Anonymous confession can be powerful as long as you don't overwhelm yourself with the vivid memories.</p><p>You are welcomed to comment here however you'd like.</p><p>One thought for you. Your vivid memories trigger basic emotions - fear, anger, sadness, disgust, surprise and joy. One classic aspect of PTSD is that these emotions become too intense. My thought is that with the help of a therapist, you learn to identify and manage your experiences of these basic emotions. These skills are valuable on their own and can help in the healing process.</p><p>Great martial artists practice the basic forms taught all beginners. Working on the capacity to regulate emotions is much the same thing.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>KYBL/ PFC Blair comments on Growth Needs Sadness</title><author>KYBL/ PFC Blair</author><pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 17:07:51 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/growth-needs-sadness.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7514403</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Having been experienced with dpression and what can now onlybe described as ptsd &quot;burning&quot; I sought comfort from two doctors he prescribed me Ambian to help with sleep as in my case sleepless nights were caused by vivid residual memories which seemed to have completely distorted my concept of time and led me to doubt my own age. However,my time fears have been aswauged and yet the memories still haunt me. At either rate the Ambien when taken this evening at approximately 1:50 am in Korea has done little to help me sleep but actually has helped in quieting arguments and memories. Coupled with two excedrin migraine, a light flowing of euphoria has overcome me and relaxed me to the point at which I can blog and express feelings through all this; as interestingly enough, my access to Facebook for reasons unbeknownst to me has seemingly been declined or temporarily suspened. <br/>This may seem as a mundane detail but Facebook is my primary access to friends and family while abroad as some individuals are aware of the precarious mental state which I was in prior to my deployment considering certain events which can most coloquially be equated to lost in the anals of time it seems.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Cole Bitting comments on Growth Needs Sadness</title><author>Cole Bitting</author><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 22:06:00 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/growth-needs-sadness.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7497537</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment Bronnie! I love your thought that sadness measures the importance of what was lost. I would add that the better the sadness is processed the more the love is remembered.</p><p>Please send along any links or information on your research.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Bronnie Thompson comments on Growth Needs Sadness</title><author>Bronnie Thompson</author><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 19:28:52 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/growth-needs-sadness.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7495976</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>My way of helping me accept pain and sadness from loss is to remind myself that the depth of emotion shows how much I loved what I had.  Tedeschi &amp; Calhoun have opened up some fabulous work on this topic - very relevant to the research I'm doing on resilience in people who have persistent pain.<br/>Thanks for posting.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>Cole Bitting comments on Growth Needs Sadness</title><author>Cole Bitting</author><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 16:44:58 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/growth-needs-sadness.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7494734</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment and openness!</p><p>The stifling reaction is so normal. But it's hard to give up and experience the pain of loss. When we practice a defense and is helps, we use it over and over. The risk is the defense breaks because it holds too much back. The breakdown of a defense, itself, is an overwhelming, traumatic experience. In effect, we role several traumas into one very large one.</p><p>You story perfectly illustrates these qualities. Thanks for sharing and pointing out the way you value grieving. Sometimes, we're so busy being happy, we forget to be sad.</p>]]></description></item><item><title>thelittlefluffycat comments on Growth Needs Sadness</title><author>thelittlefluffycat</author><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 16:28:47 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.goodfables.com/blog/growth-needs-sadness.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">435552:4839192:comment/7494611</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>I lost two family members, years apart, &amp; stifled my reaction both times because of my responsibilities. Years after the second loss, a friend of many many years died, and I almost fractured, but &quot;sucked it up&quot;. A year later, at the first anniversary of her death, I fell apart -- and realized, after I'd withdrawn and processed, that the reason my reaction had been so major was that I'd been processing not one loss, but three.</p><p>I will never do that to myself again. And if I can ever help someone make room in their lives to grieve properly, I will do it. </p><p>Great article.</p>]]></description></item></channel></rss>