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Furies! - The Struggle For Growth

The science of our complex human nature is unravelling the mysteries of how we create and change experience. Furies! leverages this growing knowledge to examine how harsh events cause emotional distress and intense suffering. This book, full of examples, shows how we can change these painful experiences, create well-being and enable personal growth.

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How Loss Creates Depression And Growth

11. The capacity to tolerate distress and efficiently develop greater internal resources creates the greatest possibility for posttraumatic growth. Posttraumatic growth and posttraumatic diminishment can co-exist.

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Sunday
Nov012009

The Last 30%


When I write, the last 30% takes twice as long as the first 70%. I plan for this circumstance, but its quality defies planning. I will confess to a life-long “more-better” affliction.

When I published the first part of my Furies essay, the whole essay was complete. It was long (over 4,000 words), so I chose to publish it in three parts.

The third piece is on the neuroscience of sense-making. I knew it was perfunctory, but in the context of 4,000 words, it was OK.

I forgot it would be the last 30%. Once it was separate, oops.

This section has now become its own essay. Should be out soon, at least the first 70%. Grin.

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Reader Comments (2)

Perfection is a sin, isn't it? Oh! the pleasure of relaxing into our very imperfect nature, not expecting too much, enjoying instead the pleasure of sharing through the words . . .

Deep bow,

Marguerite

November 9, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMarguerite Manteau-Rao

Thanks for the comment :)

I recognize myself in "perfection is a sin." I will also testify that I savored many moments of triumph as I creatively develop and embellish the feelings and thoughts that are expressed in my writing.

My latest Essay - Clean Up, Feel Better - is what Furies, Part 3 became. The transformation was an awesome experience. I enjoyed my very imperfect nature.

November 9, 2009 | Registered CommenterCole Bitting

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